Cancer Days
It’s been a rough couple cancer days.
These are days marked by overwhelming emotions surrounding my diagnosis that I thought I had moved past.
Sometimes they are triggered by a pending anniversary (like the day I was diagnosed), but most often they sneak up in unexpected ways.
Either way, I am rendered useless.
Holding space for these days can be hard, especially in a world constantly preaching that ignoring feelings = strength.
It’s vital to acknowledge these days and take steps to work through them, instead of pretending you’re fine when you’re not.
It might look like this:
❤️🩹 Taking breaks throughout the day
❤️🩹 Cancelling commitments
❤️🩹 Treating yourself (pictured @bluebirdhomedecor)
❤️🩹 Fasting social media
❤️🩹 Journaling (this post counts)
❤️🩹 Reading scripture (Ephesians 1, Psalm 139)
Many times, taking care of yourself will look like disappointing some people #ohwell.
Courage isn’t always showing up for battle. Sometimes, courage is recognizing that you can’t. But you’ll try again tomorrow.
A special thank you to @ohyouresotough @msmindymiller and @natashaaftercancer for being such lights in this community.