Valentine’s Day 2023

PSA: stop telling single women we’re not doing enough to find a spouse.⁣

So many of us are in various stages of the search, taking a break from the search, or content but hopeful.⁣

You don’t know what a woman has experienced that’s led her to where she is.⁣

“Put yourself out there” is a directive that has long since worn out its welcome. ⁣

We are active in our communities, running businesses, and traveling the world. It doesn’t even apply. ⁣

And stop throwing around online dating like it’s a one-size-fits-all, one-stop shopping, magic bullet.⁣

It might not be right for everyone and there are so many factors to consider when investing energy into strangers on the internet, beyond casual social media interactions. ⁣

When you’re married, no one is asking you what it is or why it is. You’re free to navigate the twists and turns as you both change and grow.⁣

We are no different - we deserve the freedom and respect to navigate the journey we are on, and above all else, to just be able to LIVE. ⁣

Without the pressure. Without the time tables. Without the assumptions.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have some calls to make.